The New Year has begun. Remember over the holidays when everyone over-ate, over-spent, and generally over did it all? You woke up a day or two later and thought “What have I done?”
The same thing can happen with a home purchase. It’s called buyer’s remorse. It’s not quite as easy to “return a house to the store.” You own it now. You’ve moved in and now you’re starting to rethink what you have done. Don’t worry, it’s a normal thing many people go through.
How To Combat Those Feelings
- Embrace what you have done. You are a homeowner now! What a great thing. It might seem like the costs are huge and there is no way you can really afford what you have done. Take heart. If you worked with a Realtor and a Lender, part of their job is to make sure you don’t overextend yourself. You actually can afford the home you are in.
- Make it your own. No house is perfect. Not even a new construction home. It’s quite possible there are things you will want to do to improve the property. Remember that it is your home now, not the previous owners. You can paint with whatever colors appeal to you, you can also change counters, drapes, and any other improvements you would like to make. Take it slow and start small. Paint one room. It doesn’t have to be done overnight. More than likely, you will be in the house at least seven years so plan things, save some money and be smart with the change decisions you want to make.
- Enjoy. You have spent a lot of time looking at properties and finding just the right thing for you and your family. Rest in the knowledge that you make an informed decision and it was what was best for your family at this time. The feelings of remorse will go away when you start making changes and making your new home more – well – homey!
If Something Changes
Job loss, illness, family dynamic changes, more family members moving in or out. All these things can affect your ability to maintain the house you had so many hopes for.
If something happens that prevents you from enjoying the tranquility of your home, don’t despair. Keep your Realtor and Lender informed of changes within you family. They are there to help you. If the need arises that you need to change things, they can help figure out alternatives or sell the property if that is the best course of action. They have spent a lot of time with you, building a relationship. It was never intended to be a “once and done” setup. Every day, there are new programs being developed that could change your outlook even if there have been dramatic changes to your family.
If you need help with the purchase or sale of a home, reach out to me for more information about how I can help you get where you want to be.
I’m never too busy for your referrals.
Ebby Halliday, REALTORS®